Hmm. Not sure if its a trait but its better than the generic answer of ‘toxic’. Of course a toxic person is red flag. Sometimes its a red flag in the sense of a bull and the woman is attracted to that or vice versa.
Mines simple. I have goods you wish to buy. You want them. Money needs to be exchanged. “Oh I dont get paid till next week, thanks”. Son. of. a. bitch. Next comes “I’ll pay half now and the rest next weej”.
Its the assuption that I’m okay with this deal and I lack the social skills to say no, fuck off. I sold you something, you pay for it and then take the item.
So put that into a personality trait and qotd answered.
Could just be me being a push over.
Ah haaa. When you want to discuss an issue you are personally having ie. a mental health problem, and they got into this whole how everyone has this problem so you should stop complaining narrative guised up in “Oh well I have that” instead of just listening for five minutes and I’d be done.